Ruth Sadelle Alderson

Is Konan a real name? Because that's hilarious. :D (also would you happen to have the link to that one primer where someone had collected twitter things about all Segs' bros/harem members? I remember it being super helpful but I can't find it anymore) Ew, about the kind of company these guys keep, but yes to adorable thanksgivings.

Haha~ maybe I should have checked that before mentioning the story. :D I have the worst name memory, I just can't keep that stuff in my head... But yes, it's so fascinating! Like how much of it is just mental in a non sexual way. Like a state of mind, which is usually mentioned when it comes to subspace. Also how it all boils down to trust in the end and that is so interesting to me personally, because I'm not a trusting person.

It can be, at least that's what the person who wrote the article mentioned. Obviously it's then tied to some other dynamics I'd imagine, like maybe praise kink or just general submissiveness. But yes, I like the more independent/active kind (I don't know what word I'm looking for) a whole lot more, as applied to this pairing.

Because I'd love to read an epic fic where Brownie is Segs' service top, like from the beginning where they discover what they need and want together over the years (also separately, of course, if this is rl compliant) and maybe they have to take a break or two in the middle because they just can't seem to figure it out and all the distance and the open relationship status is stressful and they both have to and want to concentrate on hockey and life keeps happening etc.

and maybe Segs can't find a top who get's him like Brownie does (it's good with them and he get's off, but afterwards when he looks back at the scene it's never quite right/perfect) and maybe nobody really understands Brownie's need to take care of them [does he get too intense about it? does it feel like too much, if you can't compete with that? Like all the romantic things he did with his gf, if she (not the real person obviously) could never do anything as nice.]

I've re-read this comment twice and it makes almost no sense, but I also can't seem to fix it. I think I'm overcome with feelings... Sorry, I hope you don't regret your last line already. ^_^;