Dear iTunes, Please bend to my will.

So here's what I want: when I have iTunes on shuffle, I want it to display the list of songs in the order they're playing. It will do this for an individual playlist, but not for a folder or for the entire music library. Is this just something it does not do, or am I missing an option somewhere?

(I also still wish it would put the song name in the window title bar so I could hover over minimized iTunes and find out what's playing without having to switch windows, but I've wanted that forever and Winamp was the only player that ever did that anyway.)